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For cleansing oneself
from negative influences in one's environment or a build-up
over time of such influences within oneself. This essence
helps a person to be amongst the different aspects of life
and maintain inner sanctity by continual internal focus, alertness
and not compromising the treasures of Life. For the
person easily dazzled by external attractions and frivolous
enjoyments, being influenced to the detriment of their overall
welfare. For those who leave themselves too open to
influences. For those who feel a sense of frustration
and helplessness with their situation and feel increasingly
unable to manage what they have got themselves into.
For a person who feels weighed down by, and find themselves
absorbing, a build-up of psychic "junk" from the atmosphere
or people in an environment they spend time in.
For the maturing of
the male principle or the man within. For both men and women the
promoting of positive creativity that also nurtures an awareness
of the needs of the environment while achieving goals. Helpful
in balancing achievement with life sustaining qualities such as
caring and community/family spirit. Within us the creative force
blends with the receptive force. If we are to become whole, then
the two must be at one. Our creative force expresses the power
to protect and love the created Universe and to be fearless on
our journey forward. The aboriginal people see the Balga
and its flower as the warrior standing with his spear watching
over the tribe.
is used for women and men who find it hard to be forthright
and assertive, or whose assertiveness is aggressive and overpowering.
Both these indicate a lack of maturity and full development
of the masculine strength within. Commonly used for young
boys and girls and adolescents who cannot integrate their new
sexuality (the assertive/masculinity) into their being and are
either lacking in their masculine strength or are out of balance,
with the negative, dangerous and destructive side predominant.
Used also for the person who cannot tap into their creativity,
their ability to go into new territory and explore original
and new horizons.
The essence of forgiveness
and love. To bring back the light and re-sensitize after resentment
and heavy emotional traumas one can't seem to forget. Helpful
in relationship break-ups and grief/anger obsessive cycles. Also
for issues of "control" as with parents or other authority figures,
which then get re-enacted in later life. Some of the hardest lessons
we learn are the ones confronting us because of betrayal by a
person we care about or are vulnerable to. It is a test of our
ability to keep the greater vision of the purpose and higher goals
of our Soul while facing the events our personality is grappling
with. To bring in the Light and allow our Soul to lead the way
heals the personality and reasserts our direction, freeing us
from the darkness of negativity and hurtful deeds.
To strengthen the Will
and take back control of the Self. To realize the beauty
of inner focus and consistency in establishing a fulfilling life.
For those who feel too easily swayed and distracted because of
lack of direction and purpose. Helpful in bringing new beginnings
by breaking the hold of old patterns of behaviour that are deteriorating
the quality of life. For breaking the spell of habitual
patterns of behaviour. Used also for breaking the hold of
substance addiction. Habits are like old arm chairs, lumpy
but familiar, and the person has to fight against their own old
programming to be able to change to healthy new directions and
experiences. This essence is helpful in inspiring changes
by breaking the hold of old patterns of behaviour that deteriorate
the quality of life. Any expansion of consciousness is brought
about by effort. This effort requires focus, direction and
forward movement. Old habits imprison us and impede our
progress. They have power because they give a false sense
of security. To have free will is to break through the feelings
of unwillingness to give up old ways and be spontaneously working
with Life. Where the person has become habituated in patterns
of living and behaviour that hamper development, happiness or
relationships with others. This essence helps the metamorphosing
of the mind to its new pathways by being positive about self control,
discipline and direction. For children who have become set
in routine patterns for example: waking during the night, crying
or being destructive to get attention, immediately reacting when
not getting their own way. For people battling addictions
or obsessive behaviour patterns—especially useful in combination
with Green Rose.
The essence that inspires
generosity and the openness to share what we have with others
on all levels. The opening of a window in the Soul that
reveals the basic needs of fellow beings and then rekindles the
desire to give with grace and benevolence. Also helps to
de-energise an unhealthy need to have and keep hold of material
possessions. The spirit of sharing, and finding happiness
in seeing the enjoyment of others, leads to a greater sense of
the joys of togetherness and oneness. For people who try
to avoid having to give of themselves or be generous. Often
they are puzzled as to why other people don’t have loving
feelings for them. For others relating to these people it
seems that the person is always suspicious of motives and wondering
what someone wants from them. When people get annoyed or
start to reject them the unhelpful person will seem to not understand
why people are reacting to them in this way. This
essence is also for the person who is too involved with the fleeting
pleasures of material objects, hoarding, hiding and holding onto
what they have. This is really a very sad state of being
and brings no joy at all. For the person who is too involved
with the fleeting pleasures of material objects, hoarding, hiding
and holding onto what they have. This is really a very sad
state of being and brings no joy at all. For those with
petty attitudes concerning what they own.
To encourage respect
and appreciation of people and their intrinsic value. For when
criticism needs to be transformed into acceptance of others, their
individual and differing expressions. Helpful for bridging communication
and mutual respect problems in relationships. Our expanding
consciousness can make the mind strong and able to make clear
discernments. However when relating to people a basic respect
for each Soul and its journey is a solid premise for positive
exchanges. Being able to do mental gymnastics is not a sign
of expanded consciousness, just as not being intellectually eloquent
is not a sign that a person hasn’t developed their mind
or their spiritual being. Arrogance can lead to spiritual
inertia, if we believe we are better than anyone else we live
in a self-made illusion. Helpful for bridging communication
and mutual respect problems in relationships. For feelings
of intellectual superiority. To deal with the mind that
is used to dissect people and their ideas and find flaws, rather
than keeping a positive outlook which discriminates and weighs
ideas up without a negative slant. Also for the mentality
that makes hasty judgments of people as fools, or weak-minded
because the person is not able to "cross swords" as an equal to
inspire the realization that the journey of life will bring
solutions, one needs patience and acceptance of the "here and
now." For those who are worried and therefore will miss out
on joy. Helpful in relieving stress and sleeplessness
caused by worry. One of the illusions of life is that
only by doing something can a problem be solved, we are sure
we must think or work harder or faster to get relief . Very
often a problem is an opportunity to understand something on
a deeper level. By absorbing the lessons of a problem and reflecting
on what our reactions tell us about ourselves, we can make great
progress and ensure the same problems/lessons don’t continually
recur in our lives. Oral doses used to release the mind gripped
by morbid, anxious, or unpleasant thoughts. Such thoughts can
be part of depressed emotional states and mental confusion.
Increases in chaotic environment. Topical application
to ear acupoints for tinnitus.
This essence helps the
person to switch on their light again, that is, to see they must
reach out to the beauty around them and inside of them to feel
that it is good to be alive. Whatever the past pain has been,
or how long a person has been hurting and struggling to go on,
positive life experiences wait for them on the horizon. The renewal
of hope and optimism, when we are in touch with our inner Light,
is always rewarded. It is a brave and perhaps naive person who
thinks they can understand the meaning behind all the tragedies
that befall a person. The Soul has been on a long journey going
through so many transformations on its way home. In reaching out
to the Light, to the Love that is embedded in every part of the
Universe the Soul is refreshed and radiates beauty into their
life. Used for those who feel like giving up on life, giving up
the fight for survival because of past painful experiences. The
person has often battled on in spite of all the burdens of their
memories and now feels that life cannot be worthwhile or fulfilling.
The person may be perfectly justified for the way they feel because
of the realities of their life but the grim attitude of the hopelessness
they embrace is a suffering they are adding to their situation.
For a person unable to come to terms with an incident that makes
them feel life is not worth living.
An essence enhancing
inner renewal and freeing oneself from old baggage that has no
part to play in a happy life. For dealing with issues of the past
which leave a bitter taste. To re-experience the joy of making
the most of possibilities in present and future relationships.
One of the signposts of progress on the way to enlightenment is
our ability to not get waylaid and caught by the belligerence
or callousness of others. If we do not heal ourselves and
want to hold on to the pain and exact revenge we completely lose
our way and the whole purpose of our Path. If we do get caught
in wanting and eye for an eye, the quicker we realise how we got
into that situation and learn, the easier we will get out and
not go into a destructive state of bitterness. We then free ourselves
of the past and its effects. This is as equally true in a society
as it is in an individual. For those who are negative and
jealous of the happiness of others because their own desires and
wishes have been thwarted. For those who resent other people’s
happiness because they feel it is unfair that they haven’t
been that lucky. For people who have old anger and negativity
that has not been resolved. People become cynical and then
are unable to attract joy into their lives. A situation from the
past may or may not be still affecting their external reality
of the present, but the person can’t release their bitterness
and so they affect their present relationships with people badly.
This can often cause more bitterness and so it goes on if unhealed.
To encourage expressing the hurt
one feels, so that others may better realise your situation
and respond. To release the pent up gut feelings and face what
is really happening. This frees one from both expectation of
fairness and the situation of being used by others. Helpful
for equalising one-sided relationships and bringing reality
to obligatory relationships
Negative Keywords disregarded due
to not being straight forward in expressing ones feelings when
hurt , hurt due not being straight forward when taken for granted
by others, introverted due to not being straight forward in
expressing ones feelings when hurt, suppressed due to not being
straight forward in expressing ones feelings when hurt
This essence helps settle
the person, bringing inner contentment that enhances the enjoyment
of the family or group. The person can then fulfill their responsibilities
and reap the rewards of consistency and shared goals. For
issues of responsibility in family and group life where duties
and everyday pressure is causing an individual to become distant
and avoid their share of the load. This affects the whole
group as they must carry the extra burden, and problems of resentment
soon arise. Selflessness is a cherished development in our
spiritual life. When we stop consciously fueling our selfish
desires new pathways to happiness open up, and our environment
and the people in it reflect joy. For those only focused
on their own desires and who become uncaring. For a family
member who is suddenly feeling trapped by the realities of their
life. Like in the case of a couple with young children,
especially the first child. The person is enjoying being
in a family, but would like to have their cake and eat it too.
They wish to have the joy and comfort of home life and the freedom
of single life. The reality is that you can do that as long
as you keep baking more cakes—you have to put more effort
in to make sure that no one is suffering by you pursuing some
private goal. Usually these times of panic are phases of
a maturing process and the individual learns to integrate the
different aspects of their real needs responsibly into their life.
To inspire feelings
of positivity and self esteem. Being able to learn from mistakes
with acceptance and without blame or regret. From inner acceptance,
to focus, to success. Helpful for overcoming negative self concepts
with ensuing phases of stagnation or depression. For a person
who lacks confidence, keeps themselves in an inferior position
and doesn’t try to improve. They feel they are useless or
not good enough and so perpetuate their situation. For those
with an inferiority complex who dump on themselves. For
those lacking confidence. Very often this essence is used in cases
where a person has not been encouraged as a child and doesn’t
have a good self image. Also in cases where people’s experiences
in relationships always left them feeling they were not good enough
for the other person.
essence of recovery from trauma. To help rebuild and re-thread
the subtle and physical bodies after a shattering experience,
mentally and/or physically, thereby energizing them. To integrate
such experiences into one's understanding and perspective on
Life in a wise way and move forward with renewed vigor.
Used in cases where a person has experienced a sudden reversal
of fortune. The person has often not made provision for such
events, and is therefore not prepared mentally to adapt and
deal with the situation. Such people find it hard to rebuild
their life and feel hopeless, becoming a victim of circumstance.
essence helps resolve problems of over-competitiveness and brings
a person into a space where they are free to interact with others
as an equal. The Self then comes from a deeper aspect where
it can feel joy for another's successes without feeling inferior
or unattended. For issues of needing recognition and acceptance
from others. For those who tend to demand attention, respect
and recognition. For a person who is craving acknowledgement
and becomes negative when people don’t respond on cue.
Such people need to be constantly told what a good job they
have done, or how good they are. Mixed in with this are flashes
of superiority complex, over estimation of self-importance and
a dismissing of people as underlings. Phases of all these
traits are common in childhood, especially where parents have
tended to placate the child and not deal with the negative behaviour.
The demands then continue to rise to new levels. The healing
brings a quieting of the mind, which can feel self assurance
and inner contentment.
essence of letting go and allowing life to flow. For issues
of holding on. Helpful in times of change, grief and reconciliation
for the person to allow the old day to go and the new day to
be embraced with flexibility. For problems of general
stress, inflexibility, not being able to adapt to new situations,
stress and tension through wanting things a certain way and
no other. For parting trauma such as grief, separation,
divorce. Used for hard, tight muscles, cramps and spasms used
directly on area. Used direct to back of neck and shoulders
to relieve headaches caused by tension in these areas. Applied
to lower abdomen to relieve constipation, oral doses for chronic
problem. Is part of the formula for flower essence Pain
essence to invoke Life affirming positivity, to release thoughts
about being wronged in the past. To find detachment and be at
peace within oneself and not be reacting from vengeful emotions.
To find release in the realization that one has a choice in
how to respond to events, and that to harbour blame hardens
the heart. To find mellowness of being and take responsibility
for a better tomorrow. For those who can’t get rid
of the "chip on their shoulder" and hold on to feelings of revenge
against those who have wronged them. For those who cannot
have trust in new relationships because of their experiences
in the past. For those who believe there is satisfaction
in revenge. The vengeful, jilted lover. For people
who have taken vengeful actions against a person they love and
now are sickened by it. They now regret they have hurt someone
they cared for and feel that Life has set them up to have pain.
For those who blame Life and other people for their misfortunes.
This leads to cutting off from sensitivity and openness. The
healing brings a realization that we are responsible for our
actions and reactions to Life. That there is a benevolent basis
to Life with which we must work to achieve happiness, healing
ourselves of past pains. We can then walk away from the thoughts
of being wronged and/or the people who have wronged us and start
living positively, with an open heart, for today.
This essence stimulates
love and focus out towards others, and one becomes happy by giving.
For loss of balanced perspective leading to introversion, being
demanding and over concentrated on oneself and what you have or
have not got. For those who use the emotions to manipulate
situations and people so their wants can be satisfied. For
problems of greed, thirst for acquisition. For people who
become brooding, revengeful and manipulative to create a pressure
to get what they want. They want Life to run around them, and
react badly when friends and family get sick of their ways and
let them know it. For demanding children who create tantrums
to wear down their parents, and have their wants met. For people
who feel they can only get love by applying pressure and manipulating
For the mind to embrace
benevolence and good intentions. This essence frees the
conscience, which then naturally brings the mind back to balanced,
healthy pursuits. For those who find themselves caught in
unhealthy curiosity about the affairs of others, who feel powerful
with personal information and can’t resist using it for
their own ends. For those focused on petty things about others
and cause damage by loose talk. They like the control they
have when privy to personal information. This makes such people
very unpopular and causes complicated emotional situations. In
extreme cases they are very smug and feel superior because they
can be the cause of such havoc through having such control over
people’s lives. Often these people come for healing because
of rejection or hatred from others, be it in the school yard or
the boardroom. For those who enjoy controlling others, manipulating
behind the scenes.
To find the freedom
of truthfully showing one's true thoughts and intentions. To be
able to think, say, and be as one whole person without hiding
any underlying negativity or to fall into hypocrisy. Used
for character traits of two faced behaviour, where such people
harbour negativity but show nothing of this towards those they
dislike. Being able to trick people in this way leads to added
attitudes of thinking other people are stupid. If exposed such
people become more negative. For those who feel amused by
the misfortunes of others while pretending to be sympathetic.
They feel contemptuous towards those they see as fools. The healing
enables them to let go of their negative thought patterns and
see it as only fair that other people confront them and expect
more honesty and integrity. They then can be straightforward in
their dealings with people.
claustrophobia, both physical and emotional. To enable one not
to feel panic in a confined space or when feeling under threat.
To allow the rush of energy and fear to be earthed so that rational
thought can prevail. Used in cases where a person is suffering
from claustrophobia. Fear of being enclosed. Inability
to go on aircraft, in tunnels, small rooms, etc. For fear
of being trapped in a smothering relationship. For a fearfulness
and anxiety that life is closing in and there are no solutions.
Frees the mind from the irrational adrenaline response and the
mind can then think clearly and calmly.
To strengthen oneself
so as not to be pressured against one's will, or be routinely
influenced by the desires of others who focus on you. Helpful
for dominant/submissive relationships and for adolescents succumbing
to peer group pressure. For people who are going against
what they suspect or know inside to be fair or true.
To help people learn to stand their ground and not compromise
themselves under coercion. To free a person who is bowing
to another’s will. Enhances, and brings up the inner
strength and assuredness, and one can feel content that they are
being their own person. Used in cases where the immune system
is weakened by sickness or drugs.
For finding the powers
of regeneration and metamorphosis within. The essence to care
for and heal oneself so one can bounce back after personal trauma
and unload the feelings of heaviness. For people who feel
weighed down by the murky areas of their Life and have lost the
ability to feel good about living. The such persons have often
been of a very giving nature, been highly traumatized, hurt and
battered by life, been taken for granted and abused, which leads
to them wanting to withdraw from people. Life becomes too hard
so they don’t want to interact with it any more. In extreme
cases, there is often a subconscious desire to no longer be on
this earth. The healing brings a person back in touch with
the goodness of Life and the positive aspects which can be so
joyous and fulfilling, regenerating hope and idealism.
the maturing of the female principle or woman within. For both
men and women a metamorphosis to inner strength, nurturing sensitivity
and loving wisdom that is not emotionally dependent. Helpful
in releasing the feminine aspect into society. For people
who are either unable to bring out their nurturing, compassionate
or patient side (underactive unbalanced feminine aspect) or
who tend to resort only to their emotions to deal with relationships
(overactive unbalanced feminine aspect). Also for issues
of mothering, such as using guilt to maintain control, not allowing
independence for those in one’s care, or the other extreme
of not being able to enjoy caring for and nurturing someone
who is vulnerable, and in need of help. First-time mothers
can be caught in such dilemmas and during pregnancy or early
days of motherhood feel totally alien to the new role before
them. Also for menstrual problems and hormonal imbalances.
The essence of opening
up and opening out. Feeling the dignity of coming forward
to your place in Life, regardless of being vulnerable to exposure.
To be at ease with yourself while being with other people and
not fear being open. Confidence for those who feel more
comfortable withdrawing from people than dealing with problems
or criticism. Enables one to detach from the tangled situations
and judgmental attitudes of others and instead feel free to join
in social situations. For children who don’t speak
much, or at all, whom others may label as shy, who can be withdrawing
from what they see as disturbing and confusing aspects of adults’
lives that they are part of. For those who seem shy, but are really
very wary of other people and of what can happen when allowing
someone into their world. For a person who feels unnecessarily
modest, feeling shame about the naturalness of their body.
For pretending to cope.
essence or re-igniting carefree feelings, to heal all aspects
of anxiety linked to perfectionism. Helpful for those who worry
about details, allowing the mind to become bright and inquisitive,
positive in outlook, and allows the mind to free itself from
the small, tight framework. For people who are continually
caught in over-attention to details—the perspective they
have increases a negative and hopeless state where problems
can never be solved because there is always another detail to
consider. For those caught in small details which can
create low energy states, depressed states, anxious states and
totally frustrated states of mind. When the person is freed
from the small perspective, problems can often dissolve because
it was the unnecessary focus that was making the problem in
the first place. For those needing to accept their present
imperfect state of health and wellbeing while convalescing from
illness or trauma, Golden Waitsia can be applied to the soles
of the feet every few hours. (no pressure needed to application,
simply wipe essence over entire sole of foot).
essence of making progress, of focusing ahead and using vigour
to accomplish a breakthrough. To enhance forward movement through
a problem, or phase of stagnation, without sudden leaps back
to square one. To be free of frustration, to avoid repetition
of mistakes. Helpful in maintaining disciplines and healthy
habits for body, mind, and spirit. For people who cannot
successfully complete a change they need to make. They seem
to do well but can make surprising reversals and be back where
they were in the beginning. This is due to the fact that a strong
part of their mind resents having to change, and would prefer
to stay the same, if only there were not consequences that were
unpleasant. Often the natural consequences are the natural reactions
from others, which can make these people negative and defensive
towards those around them. This projecting blame onto others
can then create within self righteous attitudes and give them
a reason to stay stubbornly the way they are. For those
who are battling addictions or addictive patterns of behaviour
and are frustrated that they always end up where they started.
Especially good in combination with Blue
China Orchid for breaking addictions and bad habits.
The art of timing and
decision making. The essence of patience in finding direction
in Life which leads to peaceful settling of the mind. This patience
allows time for the consolidation of experiences so one can make
decisions with greater wisdom and determination, and not be influenced
into erratic action driven by one’s own anxiety. For
the person anxiously facing choices they are not ready to make.
For those who are trying to keep many activities going because
they are unsure of which ones to focus on. For people anxious
about the choices in front of them. There are times when a they
have to make a decision or choices about their life but are not
in the position to do so wisely. It can be that they are young,
inexperienced, amidst other crises, or unable to see the wood
for the trees. With the enhancement of patience and a stilled
mind, the person can make interim decisions, waiting for the right
time, to read the flow of Life correctly and make their move.
Helpful to enhance the intuitive understanding of one’s
Life direction. Believing one cannot achieve, feelings of
being in a mess or devastated. Cannot see how things will work
The spirit of self assurance,
the realisation of self reliance and determination. To inspire
standing on one’s own feet, to be able to believe in and
achieve with one’s own strength. To believe in one’s
own ability to attract into the Self that which one needs. Helpful
for trepidation about striking out on a new path less travelled
by others, being able to let go of the need for a backup person
or simply fear of doing things alone. For people who find
it too challenging to do things by themselves. They feel more
comfortable when someone else is with them. For those who in one
area of their life do not feel confident enough to follow a new
path which the majority of people around them do not tread. For
people who do not have confidence in their ability to attract
a partner into their life and so do not project themselves in
a way that anyone can notice them. Also for those who are
not confident that they can attract a partner simply by being
themselves, and instead project bravado and try to use an over-assertive
or dominating approach. Looking for support from others,
failing in one’s own endeavours because there is no support
from others. Feeling let down. See also Purple
essence grounds excessive, scattered energy and re-establishes
a natural and healthy flow that feeds the needs of activity
without over stimulating. With this inner mental and physical
peace, the person feels back in control of their life and can
have balanced states of rest and activity. For those who can't
sleep or relax because of frenetic energy unbalancing them.
For hyperactive children and people who have been in fearful
or over-stimulated states for a long period of time and now
they can’t relax their body or mind when they need to.
When the etheric body is too highly strung, you find people
who are naturally tense and affected by the little inconsequential
happenings in their life. This over-stimulates their nervous
system and they find it hard to relax. They can often see no
cause as to why they are unable to switch off.
essence of knowing who you are, the sanctity of your inner being,
the strength to maintain your inner peace no matter where you
are, or what circumstances may be there to influence your judgment
about your Self. This essence acts as a filter and inner strengthener,
so that a person is not going up and down with the praise or
condemnation of others. Used for cases of stress resulting from
interactions with people. For those who feel keenly the
feelings of others. Also for those psychically sensitive, it
helps to relieve the burden of that sensitivity by engendering
a contentment generated by their own centre. Use with
Macrozamia for adolescence and menopause.
essence of valour to overcome painful memories hiding in the
subconscious. The essence of Joy and courage to face and deal
with past shadows and pain. To inspire the knowledge that there
is no hidden pain that can’t be dealt with, it is never
as bad as you fear, it will not overwhelm you, you are stronger
than it. For people who are living without being able
to feel Joy, there is hidden pain, like a dark cloud, casting
a shadow over them. Some past experience, which they consciously
remember or which lies in their subconscious, has not been healed.
To help people get through the healing of painful memories or
suppressed memory. For those who avoid dealing with current
situations, the suppressed cause being painful memories. Helpful
also in psychotherapy, rebirthing and past life therapy to uncover
forgotten or hidden experiences affecting the present state
essence of centralizing energy and focus, to ensure the maintenance
of wholeness. Stimulating the inner core of one’s being
to take control of Life situations. It helps one to withdraw
from peripheral concerns and focus on what is of primary importance.
The effect is to deepen understanding of what caring for and
helping a person can really mean, to know also when to stand
back for that person’s deeper welfare. Helpful for
feelings of depletion in those whose work or life is in the
service of others. For people who tend to "give themselves
away" and find they are exhausted in every way, and have to
get away from people to allow recuperation. Very often these
are care-givers in "people" jobs such as therapists, nurses,
teachers, parents, group organizers. The unbalanced response
comes from a lack of proper and considered perspective, although
coming from a benevolent desire to be of help. For benevolent
people suffering from "burnout."
The essence to restore
equilibrium to the Sex/water chakra. To free the mind from masculine
and feminine stereotypes and dogma. The union of Love between
the male and female. For healing and restoring the balance
to all aspects of female/male, Yin/Yang energy flows. To release
blockages to these primal and vital flows. Also helpful in physical
manifestations of these blockages such as restoring balance to
the water element in the body as this essence basically re-harmonizes
the sex/water chakra and related glands. Negative sexual
imbalance can come about due to many influences. Sexual
trauma or distasteful experiences from childhood, early teens,
or at any time in a person’s life. People may react
to the inner imbalance by focusing on sexuality out of proportion
to other needs of their being, or by continually attracting the
wrong sort of person to them, and thus perpetuate the negative
emphasis in their minds. Self esteem and being able to trust anyone
will suffer as a consequence. A different direction for the unbalanced
focus and negative development to take is brought about by the
effect of rejection of strong sexual advances, which leads to
cruel and dominating behaviour. For those who feel a sense
of worthlessness because they do not feel complete in themselves.
For those with sexual problems such as frigidity and impotency.
For those with sexual inhibitions, or who find it hard to be open
emotionally or sexually. Desire for isolation, aversion
to people. Confrontational, quick to respond in an aggressive
manner to anything that seems threatening.
This essence calms,
strengthens and inspires the person to face and deal with their
life and relationships so that stability and fulfillment come
together for them at last. With new found consistency, there is
a deepening and maturing in all aspects of Life. For those with
difficulties, such as panic and a need to run away when facing
responsibility in work or family life. For those with difficulties,
such as panic and a need to run away when facing responsibility
in relationships, work or family life or any area of life that
requires responsible actions. Used also where people have
irrational responses to commitment or being consistent in their
behaviour. Settles the mind and brings in a sense of the Joy and
interest in developing long-term relationships and goals. The
new consistency enables a greater fulfilment and an encouraging,
positive response from people.
This essence inspires
the realization that idealism about love is important, that being
loved is wonderful, it is eternally with us and sometimes also
given to us from the external world. For healing those who are
holding in sadness and great hurt, this is the essence of finding
higher love. The depths of love these people long for are
more surely found within the depths of themselves, where it can
never leave them. For those who have given love and have
not received the same. This can be a child without tenderness
from a parent, a parent without tenderness from a child or a lover
without tenderness from a partner. The person to whom affections
have been given may not be capable of returning such love and
this the hurt giver finds hard to accept. They keep trying
to get their needs met through the one person, or one type of
person. They get sad, angry, frustrated, and even spiteful for
they can’t see why the person doesn’t respond in kind.
The depths of love these people long for are more surely found
within the depths of themselves, where it can never leave them.
essence of rebirth, of looking forward to tomorrow’s experiences.
To open to the strength of Joy that pain cannot touch. To move
on through and past pain without fear and expectation of repetitions,
without closing doors to Life. Especially in the realms of human
relations, this fear and hesitation blocks joyful new beginnings.
This essence encourages regeneration, renewal and courage, using
painful experiences as an opportunity for greater depth and
a source of determination to move forward.
The essence of awareness
and balance of focus. For those feeling they are unfairly carrying
everyone's work-load on their own shoulders. For those feeling
unsupported and overwhelmed, such as people in leadership positions
or situations such as being a single parent or self employed.
They feel they are swamped by the demands of their life and lose
perspective about how life is for everyone else. For those feeling
isolated due to what they perceive as lack of support from
others. This essence helps one re-focus on the contribution
that others make, then sensitivity to their problems and burdens
is born. This awareness and empathy can serve to improve everyone's
The essence of gentle
perseverance and sustaining benevolence. Bringing one in touch
with the softness of Life, empathy re-emerges. The hardened outer
skin then becomes subtle and supple again, and is able to receive
and give Love. For those who have been gradually closing up and
desensitizing because of the harsher realities of Life and human
relations. For people who have been through "the school
of hard knocks," a general desensitization occurs. Even when they
are soft in their hearts they don’t show it. People see
only the rough exterior and may consider the person harsh. In
reality, they are wounded people with a Rhino skin to protect
them. In spite of the Rhino skin they still get hurt, but other
people will not realize it. When seeing someone going through
a hard time these people will say, "I had to go through it, so
you will have to as well." It is a typical reaction of some
people in the older generations. Opens the heart once more
and regenerates tenderness and compassion for the lives
of others, being able to show sincerely that caring and love are
there for those who need it.
essence of detachment, considered words and actions. To enhance
full expression, response, and articulation of feelings without
being angered or provoked. helps one to articulate feelings
in a positive way and be able to walk away from a verbal fight
when the only purpose from the other person is to inflict a
sense of inferiority or shame. To inspire maintenance of internal
good will, to let harsh words pass through you and not damage
your equipoise. To stop and think, to come from a higher aspect
in yourself before reacting in a way that could produce more
hurt. For those who feel threatened by people who are
mentally more agile than they are. For people who feel
frustrated with themselves and think of what to say after the
person they were trying to communicate with is no longer there.
People who are easily taunted into aggressive behaviour, who
overreact physically to verbal smart-talk or cruelty, are often
the people who find self expression difficult. This can be a
child in the school yard who strikes out, a man or a woman in
an unhappy relationship with pent-up emotions. For those
who use their physical strength as a way of resolving conflict.
The essence of conscience.
For those who get caught in manipulative power-playing for their
own gain and lose sight of the reality of natural Karma where
Life asserts justice. This essence raises the consciousness of
the person to see the futility of what they are doing and its
effects on others. as the light of conscience pierces the inner
darkness a new person is born. Inspires the surfacing of
their conscience, long since suppressed so they could have their
own way. Realizations come readily then about the repulsiveness
of their actions, and genuine sentiments of shame arise.
The mind can then see that such ambitions of exploitation are
a waste of precious time when Life could be full of the beauty
of love and friendship.
The essence of self
esteem and assertiveness. For hard-working people feeling increasingly
lonely and sad because they are unappreciated and treated like
a work-horse. This essence restores the sense of self dignity
and inner strength to not withdraw but be actively part of society
and be able to assert rights as an individual. Inspires
an ability to say no to those who try to use them, and not compromise
their inner worth.
The essence of opening
up to new concepts and ideas. To take the fear out of the unknown
and untried. To inspire full acceptance of the beliefs of other
without feeling unduly persuaded against your better judgment.
Helpful for those who feel intimidated by others' views and find
themselves being automatically defensive and dogmatic. To
understand the value of the different hues instead of only
perceiving things in black and white. To feel the thrill of exploring
another realm of thought. For those who feel they know what
is right, and whoever disagrees is wrong. For people caught
in religious, political, scientific, or esoteric dogma that prohibits
forward movement. For those who wish they could change their
Life direction but find they are their own worst enemy, hesitating,
continually fearful of stepping onto a new path. For people who
can’t understand the younger generation. For parents who
rely only on their own upbringing script to raise their children
and then find it doesn’t work. For people who are
frightened by their partner exploring different lifestyles.
This essence is helpful
in restoring the milk of human kindness to the hearts of those
whose caring has run out because it was relying on the emotional
response. The kindness that will never run out comes from a much
higher and richer source, beyond personal limitations of energy,
and this is what this essence gets one in touch with. For those
who feel dried out and have no more to give. For feelings of emptiness
in dealing with people. For those who feel burnt out from
handling other people’s problems, they find they distance
themselves, and avoid closeness. For those who find their
intellect can conceive of a person’s problem but there is
no feeling of compassion arising. For those who develop
relationships purely on the basis of their own needs without considering
the other person’s needs, but are focused on how good the
relationship will be for them.
This essence of serenity
that calms the inner core, enabling a person to carry their own
peace with them and be discerning as to what elements of the external
world they will allow to activate their attention. For those stressed
by environmental chaos or pressure. Helpful for those easily influenced
and changed by noises, clamor, or emotionally charged environments.
For those who tend to get caught in other people’s panic
or hysteria. For those who are frustrated by their inability
to maintain their "space" because the external surroundings impact
on them too greatly. For those with weak nerves who find their
life stressful and who overreact to noise and clutter. Allows
the person to pass through or be in different environments with
essence of restoring the vital force to one’s being, the
fire Qi that sustains you, gives you vigour and physical stability.
To re-ignite the vital flame and the return of dynamism to the
point where one can take over this most essential responsibility.
For the person who is losing the inner vitality which keeps
one alive, either by a gradual draining on the physical level,
or a cutting off in the subtle bodies. The feeling that
energy is slowly draining away and not returning. In cases where
people deny the needs of the physical body or a situation where
the interfacing of the strength of their mind to their physical
level is important and they can’t manage it.
The essence for courageously
standing by convictions of the heart. To be able to take the road
you know is right, regardless of how others view your choices,
maintaining the fight for one’s morality amidst opposition.
The inner strength to prevail without compromise even when the
struggle seems long and potentially overwhelming.For the idealist
who no longer stands up for their previously held ideals or standards
due to lack of support. For the person who has suffered when trying
to live by their heartfelt convictions. Because of their personal
standards they are forced to bear extra burdens and face greater
struggle. When the sacrifice seems too great they start compromising
their standards and lose determination. For those who wish
to be resilient in the face of opposition, when they feel like
the "odd one out." The healing brings the strength, creativity,
and courage to conquer this negative scenario, and the desire
to retain working ideals and standards, no matter what obstacles
essence of clarity and focus. To harness the inner strength
of purpose and direct it toward important goals. Encourages
achievement through new mental directness. Helpful for those
who find difficulty in maintaining purpose, who feel they get
lost half way through a thought process or activity. Excellent
for attaining healing and for directing energy at birthings.
For the person who cannot follow their thoughts through, losing
energy and focus and sometimes not realizing they have drifted
away from and forgotten what they were setting out to achieve.
For those who get frustrated with themselves for not keeping
"on the ball." For those who feel bad about themselves because
they feel their mind isn’t strong enough to focus properly
and achieve like others do.
The essence to take
full responsibility of oneself to free and strengthen the heart.
To not depend on and then react to people who let you down. In
this way to become a truly helpful and understanding person, such
as is needed by oneself, and others in the world every day.
For dependency/resentment cycles where a person becomes hard after
being let down and treated unfairly by other people. For
those who find they are becoming like the very people who have
been inconsiderate or hurtful to them. For people who lose sensitivity
and compassion for others after bad experiences with those on
whom they relied on. The healing brings a sense (inner strength)
of doing right by people, and being aware that they may not be
capable of doing the same in return. In this awareness and positivity
the situation will not occur where one becomes like the very people
The essence to inspire
a new perspective of understanding in a relationship, enhancing
sensitivity and a positive approach to problems without blame.
To seek mutual solutions that inspire trust and the forming of
new aspects of Love. For those in relationship problems
who cannot get past their reactions to the other person. For those
who can only discuss things by bickering and criticizing the other
person. For concentrating on sensitivity to the other person,
thus allowing constructive rebuilding of trust and other solutions.
For parents or partners who are so focused on their desires and
ideals that they compound their own dissatisfaction because the
less understanding they give their child or partner, the less
positive responses they get, which in turn makes them feel justified
in their self-centered approach. The healing is being in touch
with the other person and not focusing on winning a fight, or
having their own way, many new possibilities arise to renew the
relationship. Often both partners need to take the essence. Used
for bath therapy with Red Leschenaultia.
essence instills consistency in achievement and energy out-put.
Helpful for those who do too little, then too much—and
then collapse. The practical use of energy encourages a better
self esteem and confidence, proving oneself is then no longer
an issue. Helpful also for those who feel defeated, useless,
and are feeling unable to prove to others that they can reach
a goal. For those who feel they are not achieving enough
and then "flog" themselves with work loads. Often the next phase
is overload and breakdown.
gain and maintain serene objectivity amidst very personal issues
of the heart that threaten to unbalance you. This essence encourages
objectivity without compromising richness for feeling and sensitivity
toward loved ones, and is very helpful with relationship upsets.
For those who feel that human relations are a jungle full of
unseen dangers and entanglements. For people who become caught
up in emotional storms in relationships and cannot see what
is really happening. For those who prefer to cruise along and
conveniently ignore the intricacies of life. This attitude leaves
these people susceptible to not seeing things in perspective.
For those wishing to come from a wiser space when dealing with
knotty emotional problems. The healing allows a calming of flaring
emotional states. With a calm mind, that sees the different
emotional states and where they come from, it is easier to deal
with issues wisely. This essence helps one to see the implications
of any actions or reactions, and understand the ins and outs
of relationships, taking into account the details that create
situations. Similar to Happy Wanderer for feeling let down, for not getting desired
support from others.
release build-up of pressure and tension and allow healing relaxation
of body and mind. To enhance the unwinding process and to release
the sense of having to automatically react tensely to situations.
Very helpful for those who feel rising stress and those who
find themselves on the edge of a breakdown. Feeling of
going mad, of losing one's grip on the mind. For those
who can’t find a way to unwind, or that normal relaxing
activities no longer work. The healing brings a releasing,
like having a valve which regulates how much pressure is healthful,
and letting go of whatever is not. The person is then not caught
in the tense response to life situations.
essence to free the Spirit with unconditional Love. The essence
of selfless service. To drink deep from the deeper side of one's
Love nature. Not to be caught in emotional traps in your dealing
with fellow humans or your own Life path. To sensitize to a
point beyond personalization, freeing the heart with service.
Helpful for those who desire to merge with the Universal purpose
and on all levels, practical and internal, share their treasures
with others. For the person who can’t differentiate between
personal and impartial giving. For those feeling hurt
when not appreciated, needing to be able to handle people from
a deeper perspective. Desire for fulfilment in personal relationships
is thwarted and frustration, sadness and irritation set in.
Often the person tries to change the one who is the object of
their love to accommodate their desires and wishes but such
a process can take an eternity and mostly it just doesn’t
work out. For those who have jobs or activities centred around
people, such as school teachers, nurses, therapists, parents,
this essence inspires the giving of unconditional Love, that
is Love with no strings attached, which allows the best outcome
for those who receive and those who give. For the spiritual
essence helps transmute reservations about the demands of being
social into a liberated social manner. The change in focus to
one's general internal direction ensures a healthy flow of energy
and an ability to enjoy and deal with people without hesitation.
For feelings of restlessness, discomfort and tiredness that
are accentuated in the company of others. For those whose perspective
on friendship is what benefit they will reap from the association.
For people who want to be in company but find that when they
are, they wish they hadn’t come at all. They feel too
much is being taken from them, physically, emotionally or mentally.
For those who don’t want to live alone but find it draining
to live with another person. For those who have been ill-used
by people in the most simple social situations, they then feel
unsettled when in company.
This essence helps one
not to rely on external images and masks and to desire honest
and meaningful connections to people. For those who want to find
their true and deeper Self. Frustration with shallow, empty and
obligatory relationships is brought to an end by seeking the greater
depth in the Self and other people. Very revealing and freeing
for inner growth, helpful also with all types of psychotherapy
and counseling to get past protective facades to the inner riches.
For those who rely on maintaining false or idealistic images of
themselves to people so they will be liked and accepted, (i.e.,
people who are insecure) For those who show whatever face people
want to see to ensure their own personal advancement.
To bring one back in
touch with loved ones, promoting sensitivity. To be in the here
and now, patiently, allowing time and space for closeness and
the little joys of life together. Helpful for busy mothers, fathers,
and spouses who find their distracted behaviour is creating distance
in relationships. For those who are busy and find their mind strays
when they are trying to spend quality time with loved ones. Subconsciously
they feel that the interactions are a waste of time because they
don’t directly support their goals, desires and ambitions.
For those who are unaware of how out of touch they are with people
close to them. For working parents who find that a distance is
growing between them and their children and/or their partners.
They may be spending time with their family or partner but the
absent mind means they are there in body only. Time goes by and
distance increases. People start not to rely on the relationship
for fulfilment. People can easily end up as strangers living in
the same house.
essence renews energy and inspiration to attend to all facets
of life creatively and with equal enthusiasm. For those caught
in a conflict between desire and duties, personal expression
and responsibilities. helpful for lethargy and listlessness,
also adolescence and mid-life dilemmas of rebellion or frustration
about duties and family ties. For those experiencing lethargy,
listlessness and inability to get enthusiastic about their life.
For a problem with getting up in the morning, or sleeping too
often during the day. For adolescent and midlife dilemmas of
rebellion or frustration about duties and family ties. For those
who cannot see how they can truly enjoy their life and maintain
their job, family or other foundations of their life. They may
resign themselves pessimistically or become hedonistic, because
they can’t see how they can attend to both directions
simultaneously. For those who fluctuate between being responsible
and then totally neglecting their responsibilities. For those
suffering from burnout.
This essence helps a
person rely on their own energy and be aware of sharing burdens
in family and community life. The return of this energy flows
then sees a general boost to overall energy output and creativity
in all areas of the person's endeavor. For problems with energy
and attitude leading to laziness.For those who feel they are on
the outside of group activities. This is due to others feeling
they are a "dead weight." For those who have not realized the
fact that all people working together to their best capacity makes
a better life for everyone. For adolescents who feel they should
be provided for, whether they contribute anything. For those who
don’t feel like doing their share of the work, and who are
resentful when this fact is brought to their attention. For those
who focus exclusively on how they are feeling and not on how much
they are burdening others by their lack of output. For problems
of laziness, free-loading.
The essence of gentleness
and sensitivity. To re-open the heart, engendering empathy with
the problems of others which then becomes an opportunity for openness
and the merging of souls. Especially helpful for couples and family
relations where harshness and brittle attitudes are stopping the
love, joy, and closeness of life together.For those who have become
hardened because in the distant past they have come to the conclusion
this is the only way to survive. They cut out and deny all sensitivities
towards others. For those who wish to know true intimacy with
another, who find it hard to open up to affection. For those who
find that the hardness of the workaday world is becoming part
of them and is stopping sweet spaces between them and their loved
ones. For working couples who can’t leave the world at the
door when they come home, and want to be left alone. For those
who have become harsh and uncaring, even beginning to despise
the weaknesses of others. For those who lose empathy and care
only for themselves. Those who have contempt for weakness.
This essence is excellent for couples to use in bath therapy.
The essence to recharge
after a long struggle. To bring back the feeling of wholeness
of being where one’s integral self is restored. To heal
and then integrate and revitalize the parts of the mind and body
that feel worn down. To restore inner strength, unify the mind
and regain the ability to withstand the rigours of one’s
life. For the person who has never recovered their strength after
an accumulation of hardships. For feelings of anxiety, losing
one’s memory, feelings of instability. Being unable to cope
with life in general. For situations when a person, with the accumulation
of all the experiences of life which were bruising, hurtful or
traumatic, feels unstable and unable to cope. They become more
and more fragile and anxious about their life situation.
A person who has lost connection to many parts of their being
due to hurt or trauma will find it more and more difficult to
function as time goes on. Even after an immediate trauma they
can feel disjointed and almost out of touch with reality. They
may not realize that it is the build-up effect that is really
devastating them now.
To rise above fear and
foreboding that stops us from taking positive attitudes and directions
that are desired for a fulfilling life. Helpful for those who
feel a nameless dread and don't understand why they feel that
way. Healing the panic of fear of annihilation or fear of the
unknown in relation to oneself. For those who feel overwhelmed
in a situation and want to flee. For a person responding
fearfully to a supposed or real threat. The person facing traumatic
surgery. The refugee who has seen much death and destruction.
A person facing thoughts of the reality of death after experiencing
someone dying. A person feeling intense fear and anxiety.
essence of holding peace and inner tranquillity. For those who
find environmental distractions and the company of people make
them increasingly tense. This essence promotes an inner strengthening
which enables the inner peace to hold despite external happenings.
A person is then able to maintain themselves in all situations
with equanimity and sweetness of mind. Helpful for parents and
those in the "people" professions.For those who wish to maintain
their equilibrium when living with other people. For parents
who feel tense when the children are around them. For those
who feel the need to escape to their own "space" continually
as a way of relieving tension. For those who become edgy,
uptight and easily disturbed.
Focuses spiritual energies
that will consistently break up negative oppressive forces in
the environment. This essence gives a sense of protection and
dynamism where powerlessness previously prevailed. It is a deep
internally inspiring and extremely subtle essence that is of great
benefit to those dedicated to the Path of Light.For those who
are trying to establish new ideas. For those who feel they have
become powerless to change a situation. For those feeling unable
to express themselves freely within their life, there seems to
be an invisible force stopping them. For situations where pressing
issues need to be resolved that have no clear solutions. The tendency
is to put problems in the background of our life. This creates
two types of problems, one is that the problems still subconsciously
affect us and make it hard to really relax. The other is we become
less consciously aware of the problem so a solution becomes more
For inspiring inner
strength of perseverance when things aren't working out. To keep
caring for others and not give up or rebel. Encourages one to
achieve goals despite the obstacles. Particularly effective for
adolescent growing pains, getting students past learning dead-ends,
establishing healthy disciplines (caring about ending an unhealthy
addiction) and for those who feel in a stagnant malaise. To help
the mastering of a skill or aspect of learning. To help establish
healthy disciplines. Assists ending unhealthy addictions. For
those who give up too easily when a problem arises. For those
who don’t achieve goals because they let small things get
in their way. For lack of persistence. For those who try hard
to improve but find the external obstacles overwhelming and then
rebel. For those who are frustrated with themselves because of
stagnancy. For students who feel they are in a learning deadend.
For adolescents who try to do the right thing and then give up,
become self destructive and rebel when someone is trying to help
them through an obstacle to their happiness or success.
The essence of fulfilling
Self Love. For those disillusioned by the lack of love from others
who they have loved. This essence encourages a self contained
yet caring attitude to others which brings about an inner emotional
contentment. The "needy" feelings towards loved ones are then
transformed into a sensitivity from a centre of Self Love.For
those disillusioned by the lack of appreciation from others who
they have loved. For those who are motivated to love someone by
their need to be loved, not by the individual qualities of the
person they are attached to. For those who keep giving to those
who don’t appreciate them. For attachments to people
based on a needy emotional imbalance. For feelings of bitterness
from not understanding why relationships go wrong. For those who
tend to be the submissive yet demanding partner in a relationship.
This essence brings
back confidence and appreciation of our achievements even when
all around is malice and doubt. For those who are the target for
negativity and find they are losing vitality. With renewed
vitality in our goals and objectives it is possible to move out
of the sphere of influence of these negative projections into
the free space of positivity and success.To re-affirm self worth
and confidence when another person is projecting negativity, whether
psychically, in the form of gossip, or veiled malice. To bring
back forward momentum when others have sown the seeds of self
doubt. For a person who is the target of negativity and finds
they are losing vitality. For people who are being undermined,
often behind their back, and are losing confidence. For uneasy
feelings when dealing with people and one is not fully aware of
their motives. Those who trust people only to find they
are abused, and information they have given is used against them.
essence of empathy, to help one get in touch with how life is
experienced by others, and to integrate this into one's understanding.
To look at life from a perspective that encompasses all the
possibilities a person can face and thus lose any judgmental
attitudes. To inspire the realization that "one day it could
be me in that situation" and so also to prepare oneself for
the twists and turns that life may present you with. also helpful
for those finding themselves in trauma and unable to cope because
of lack of experience of such things.For those who are naive
about Life because of lack of experience, or lack of sharing
the experiences of others. For those who can’t develop
deeper relationships because they easily make shallow and sweeping
judgments of other people’s situations. For those who
have not developed empathy and remain aloof from others. For
those who find themselves in a trauma and are unable to cope
because of lack of experience of such things. Often they have
never contemplated their life going amiss, or have not ever
empathized with those who have had problems. Usually they condemned
a person for being to blame for their own troubles. When they
eventually meet difficulties they feel totally lost because
there is no wisdom to draw on with which to face their plight.
essence of the Selfless perspective where a true understanding
of the individual’s place in the scheme of Life is understood.
To inspire an outlook where one’s personal concerns don’t
have to be prominent and override all other concerns. The decentralizing
of one’s focus brings one in touch with the beauty and
joy that surrounds all Life and it can be appreciated anew.
For those who wish to move towards a more spiritual and selfless
state. For the person in a central position in a family, group
or organization who feels they are indispensable. Often they
are pivotal to the workings of the collective and this can start
giving them a false perspective on the importance of their personal
needs. For feelings of frustration with situations not
turning out as one wants them to. Continually talking about
one’s own problems. For people who are overly focused
on their own feelings and needs. This focus is insatiable, they
feel they have certain needs to be fulfilled before they will
have contentment. It is an illusion, which drives them on, and
there is never enough to slate their needy thirst. In the process
the "I" centered attitude prevents both a sense of peace and
inner tranquillity, and also the ability to lose the "self"
and be at one with Life.
essence of creative solutions and breaking through. For those
who feel there is no way out of their dilemmas, that they are
facing locked doors on all sides. This essence brings about
the realization and mental force to break into the realms of
infinite options and choice which have always been there. With
new creativity and hope, life situations are completely turned
around. Also helpful for releasing and manifesting the
artistic and other creative talents in people.For people wanting
to find a way out of a seemingly impossible situation.
They have lost hope. For those who feel they have no options
except the ones they don’t like. For artists and writers
with a creative block. For those who can’t find the initiative
to change their situation.
The essence of directness
and straightforwardness. Learning to deal with difficult people
and situations in a benevolent but successful manner. To stimulate
the mind to focus on what is real and important, bringing out
the courage within to cut through emotional smoke screens in communications
with people. Dealing with people who think they have the power
in a situation to take advantage of you. Dealing with messy situations.
For those being too sensitive to the consequences of confronting
someone who is dealing dishonestly with them or taking advantage
of them, compromising the truth because of someone’s power
over them. For those who accommodate burdensome emotional attachments
that are on a road to nowhere. For those wanting peace and therefore
not dealing with difficult issues in a straightforward manner.
essence to manifest a non-compromising attitude towards fairness
both within ourselves and from others. To inspire inner strength
not to get emotionally caught when someone is unfair. To not
accommodate another’s unfairness and so avoid being taken
for granted - this puts the responsibility on to the other person
to examine their behaviour. For a person who is innocent to
some of the harsh realities of life. A person who is suffering
injustice and is unclear or unable to deal with the situation.
For great frustration and feelings of being tricked.or For a
person on the other side of these situations who doesn’t
care whether they are fair or not to others. For a person on
the other side, i.e., the perpetrator of unfairness, with symptoms
of justifying unfair behaviour, perhaps with injustices done
to them previously.
This essence boosts
the sense of self worth and a person's understanding of how they
got in their "victim" situation. For those with feelings of inferiority
due to suffering unkindness from people they cared for. Helpful
for those feeling down-trodden after relationship break ups and
the underdog in an ongoing relationship.For those with feelings
of inferiority due to suffering unkindness from people they cared
for. For those feeling "down-trodden" after relationship break-ups.
For the "underdog" in an ongoing relationship. For feelings of
sadness and hurt when loved ones have not been supportive.
essence of integration and wisdom in working with groups of
people or in the family. To accept the reality of group dynamics
and retain idealism. To inspire one to work constructively with
the group to keep the flow and growth in a healthy direction
despite problems with egos, dishonest communication and other
common destructive elements. One then works with and engenders
positivity and deals effectively with negativity. For
those who have given up on being able to work in groups of people,
criticizing when things don’t go right but not taking
responsibility themselves. Not being prepared to do what is
required to make the group function positively. For those who
have lost idealism about being able to solve the world’s
problems because of the obvious difficulties people have when
working together. For people focusing on the problems and not
the solutions in group life. For people feeling hopeless about
having a harmonious family life. For couples who can’t
find a way to combine their different needs and desires.
The essence of expressing
and revealing oneself. Building bridges to meet the hearts of
others. Reorients sensitivity towards reaching out to others and
the efforts needed in order to bring about understanding. To inspire
communication and interaction, breaking up isolation and loneliness.
For those who feel sad, isolated and alone, that no one really
knows them. For those who feel misunderstood and so keep
away from others for fear of being rejected. For feelings of alienation
within a family or group. For those who are grieving the loss
of a loved one and believe they will now always be alone.
essence calms the flaring sensitivities and emotional pain that
so stress a person. For healing those who are feeling emotionally
shattered during and after relationship traumas, such as break-ups.
During these experiences they despair of any possibility of
having love in their life. This essence speeds their emotional
recovery, healing the damage and allowing them to pass on through
to the rest of their life. For the person suffering from the
shock of a relationship break-up. For those recovering
from an emotional trauma. For feelings of being emotionally
shattered, unable to imagine feeling whole and good again. To
gather one’s strength and emotional equipoise and move
on with one’s life is not an easy thing to do in such
The essence to steady
the mind-focus and inspire facing up to the realities and consequences
of choices. To be alert to all aspects of a situation and be prepared
to take them into account. To have a mature and wise view of Life.
To avoid unnecessary dangers. For those showing shallow naivete.
For teenagers who don’t realize how vulnerable they make
themselves to harm. The person who doesn’t like to
think of the consequences of their behaviour, the result being
that they are irresponsible. For those who make fun of caution.
Rebellion against caution. For people who act scattily with
a tendency to pass off important issues. For those who leap
into situations they are not ready for.
This essence helps to
re-integrate the subtle and more physical aspects of your being
into a functioning whole again. Helpful also in cases of difficulty
in concentration, fainting and after anesthesia to promote quick
recovery of mind/body connections so important for the healing
processes. For anxiety, vagueness and feeling muddled caused by
the mind and body separating in times of extreme stress.For those
who are half heartedly involved in their life activities. For
those who are not fully accepting of their life and drift along
without a strong mental direction. For those who mechanically
go about their day, but their mind is not on it. For those who
have suffered a shock or trauma, with intense fear. For those
who feel disconnected from life, ungrounded and easily swept away
by strong events. For those who have weak mind-body connections,
and are prone to being vague and muddled. For those anxious that
they are losing control of their mind under stress. For fears
from unknown origin.
The essence of clarity
for those engulfed in complexities and difficulties. To help one
develop a broad perspective when messy situations are threatening
to drag you down. Helpful in maintaining equipoise, consistency,
and direction in your life. For those having the inability to
discern between complexities, having a lack of clarity in decision
making, or being too caught in preconceived ideas. For those
with knotty problems that cause confusion and stress. For those
who find themselves reacting to isolated incidents rather than
having an overview of the situation that is creating them.
the uncovering of the deepest spiritual core. This is an essence
of tranquillity that encourages pulling back the layers to reach
the soul level. It also inspires using the higher self to integrate
and respond to Life from the most Universal perspective possible
for one's evolution at the time, rather than one's personal
perspective. Helpful for spiritual practices such as meditation.
For a person suddenly facing a grim challenge. For those unable
to find inner calm. For those feeling the need for a new
and wiser perspective during times of difficulty. For those
whose aspirations or desires are denied fulfilment, emotional
frustration and irritation set in. When this happens over a
period of time they can end up feeling that life is unfair and
this type of thinking further compounds the problem.
bring love and caring to the darkest corners of the universe
without being devastated by the insensitivity and overwhelming
suffering around you. For those who seek to help to make this
planet a better place for all. Helpful and inspiring for those
in the caring professions and in volunteer service, by engendering
a higher perspective on the purpose of pain in the journey of
the soul. For those with humanitarian aims who find themselves
unable to cope with the anguish that they experience. This can
lead to sadness and introversion. For those who are sensitive
to the pain of others and feel too paralysed to be able to change
the situation. For the care giver who can’t go on.
For those with high ideals who have been abused and now find
life intolerably hard.
essence of balance between caution and courageous decision making.
For those who feel unable to trust new opportunities in their
life because of unknown outcomes, and find that this view stops
them from experiencing life. It can also lead to a sense of
fatalism and negativity about the flow of life in general. Helpful
for worrying and pessimistic tendencies. For those who wish
to be more open to the positive side of Life and feel joy again.
For those who tend to be fatalistic and negative about Life
in general, and so miss vital opportunities for happiness. (Sometimes
called a "killjoy.") For those with tendencies to worry and
be pessimistic. For those who can’t find a good word to
say about anyone. For a complaining attitude. For those being
apprehensive about how everything is, or whether things are
working out, leading to melancholy or depressive states. For
older people who can’t feel positive about Life any more
and have the habit of running everything down.
be able to face new goals without fear of inevitable failure.
For those who are losing heart, this essence rekindles the desire
to go ahead with ideals and goals when the struggle seems too
much. Helpful during long, tiring, and seemingly pointless phases
in the journey to reach one's higher aspirations. For those
who feel they cannot get ahead with what they are wanting to
achieve. They get stuck where they are, seeing only more problems
and hardship if they move ahead. For the sad, exhausted idealist.
For those feeling disheartened and unsure of the way ahead,
hesitating to go forward. For loss of inspiration during
a long and hard endeavours. For when the load one carries in
life becomes too much, too heavy, too burdensome and there is
a sense of inevitable failure to reach the treasured goals one
is striving for. One becomes stuck and unable to cope which
makes the situation worse.
essence of perspective and humility. Helps one avoid the traps
of glamour and self importance so that life is seen with objectivity.
Without this objectivity situations and one's part in them can
be dramatized beyond their importance and central vital issues
can be neglected. Helpful for maintaining forward progress without
distracting oneself. For those who tend to exaggerate and create
a focus of attention on themselves. For those with an
inability to see themselves in perspective to their real importance,
unable to maintain a balanced view that isn’t orientated
on themselves. For the drama queen, the vocal "do-gooder."
For people whose feeling of self importance becomes the central
focus for living. When, over time, they don’t get the
respect or adulation they desire, they become listless and vague,
retreating mentally and emotionally to where their illusions
of self importance can be satisfied.
The essence of tolerance
and understanding for those frustrated by the mistakes of others.
The realization comes that there is value in making mistakes when
a person is guided by the sincerity and benevolence of another.
With this sensitivity, judgmental attitudes drop away and relationships
prosper. For the hard task master. For those who don’t like
seeing mistakes and tend to take over and do things themselves.
For the parent or boss who doesn’t have enough patience
to calmly show where a person has gone wrong or is inadequate
in what they are doing. For those who set a very high standard
for themselves and others, which doesn’t allow for the learning
curve of errors. When mistakes occur or things go wrong they see
it as failure, and chastise themselves or the people involved.
essence is calming and centering for the mind. Inspires deeper
contemplation. For those who can't focus or concentrate and
follow a thought through. For those with overactive minds, who
find their thoughts get easily scattered. For those who are
easily distracted. For the student who finds study difficult
because their mind is restless or unfocused.
This essence turns the
perspective around to encourage a realization that the first and
most important opinion is the one you have about yourself. From
this then comes personal objectives for growth and expansion built
on positivity and self assessment rather than outside recognition.
For those who have low self esteem because they are not valued
by others. For those who need to be accepted by others because
they feel inferior. For those who are utilized by others and it
is not recognized how valuable they are. For those who do things
for others, subconsciously motivated by the need to receive recognition
from them. The lack of recognition makes them feel depressed.
For those feeling sad due to being taken for granted, but have
set themselves up in the situation by undervaluing themselves.
To have lightheartedness and calmness
despite rising pressure and tension so that inner peace and
relationships with others do not suffer. To find fortitude and
wisdom to handle stressful phases without making life one long
hard chore. Helpful in keeping the mind in a positive frame
where it can enjoy the garden of Life.
Negative Keywords glum due to lack
of carefreeness, sombre due to lack of carefreeness, stressed
due to lack of carefreeness, unprepared for stress, uptight
due to lack of carefreeness
stimulating open-mindedness, which then receives knowledge and
the concepts of others. This essence calms the mind and dispels
the illusion that we hear even when we don't listen. The message
people are trying to convey is then fully understood and relationships
with others improve dramatically. Helpful with learning difficulties
in children and adults including autism. In learning not to
assume that one does know, full expansion of consciousness is
possible. For those who do not listen properly, either uninterested
in what is being said due to intellectual arrogance or being
unable to open the mind enough to process the opinions of others.
For those who dismiss out of hand the thoughts of others. For
those who find it hard to understand what another person is
meaning when they speak to them. They often miss the whole point
of what is being communicated. For those who have problems taking
in information and remembering it. For those who have problems
remembering what they study. For those who don’t want
to hear the ideas of others, for them it is a waste of time.
The "know it all." For the person with "tunnel vision."
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